Upon this month of February where hearts are all aflutter and chocolates and flowers abound, I wanted to explore why, after all these years, I still have strong romantic elements in my books. Why Romance? Why not just monsters and murders and mayhem, oh my!
I LOVE crafting the love story for my characters almost as much as I love crafting the demons they have to defeat. I look at their insecurities, their hang, ups, their flaws that have prevented them from becoming a hero already. Finding someone who loves them in spite of all this what really inspires me. And then I put them together, throw a bunch of obstacles in the way, and see what happens.I write with the truth that love is seeing the inner, ooey-gooey
marshmallow center of another person and embracing it in a graham cracker and chocolate hug. It is seeing what the other person hides from the world and accepting it. It’s knowing yourself enough to understand how you fit perfectly with another person. Add a little heat and, Voila!
Even after twenty years of writing romance, I still am as head over heels with love as I was in the beginning. I want everyone to experience this type of truth in their life. That is what I’m going for, informing that experience of finding love, of rekindling love. Finding all the paths, and shapes, and tastes of love to hopefully help you find the one person who really understand and supports your spirit.
The only thing that has really changed is how much real estate that love story takes up in my books. The first series, Diaries of an Urban Panther, was a true romance in the sense that the main push of the story was “How are shy Violet and a warrior Chaz ever going to get together?” It was the driving force of the whole series- everything got in the way of their relationship.What does love look like when you are fated to save the world?Nowadays, I like the world saving and mystery solving to take a front seat, while the romance becomes a supporting factor in the hero’s quest. She can’t go it without him, but it’s not driving the story like it used to. In The Merci Lanard Files, our main man Rafe is there and helpful and supporting, but the real dramatic question is usually “Who killed all these people?”
So when you pick up your next read, think about how the romance fits into the book. Is it a true romance, like Pride and Prejudice? Or is the romance a side plot that helps or hinders the main plot, like in Raiders of the Lost Arc? Or does it just seem thrown in there, like in The Hobbit (the movie)?
After all the books with all the romance, I am still falling in love with love all over again with every couple I read/watch. I probably always will.
What are you all's favorite couples? Favorite love stories?
As always your faithful writer,
Amanda Arista
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