Notes on fictional representations of isolation between genders...
In the art of Tarot,
The Hermit card represents many things: introspection, solitude, seeking and offering guidance and the insights and awareness that come from being alone.
It's the art of shining the lantern inward, not out.
In this way, the Hermit represents an essential step along the path of our own hero's journey, regardless of gender.
It's a psychological experience, helping us become more of who we are.
Solitude is for me a fount of healing which makes my life worth living. - Carl Jung
Jung said that the highest and most decisive experience of all is to be alone with one Self, and for many of us worldwide, we are asked to do just that now.
To self-isolate.
To social distance.
Everyone responds in different ways, depending on whether they are extraverts, introverts, creatives, immersive... a combination of all possible elements. The point is, now more than ever, we can turn to our most cherished fictional characters for support and guidance.
At least, that's what I thought when I started this post a few days ago.
Now, after some hours of research, I have to amend that statement to, "...we can turn to our most cherished MALE fictional characters for support and guidance."
Female fictional characters in isolation, not so much, though of the hundreds and hundreds of tarot deck designs, we are starting to see some female representations of the hermit.
That's something, right?
Gender and the art of Hermiting
Basically, men and women can find the rhythm of isolation in similar ways - immerse in books and film, do yoga and workouts online, join forums of interest, pursue distance education, even apply for PhDs, cook, clean, meditate, garden, design and build. All these actions help us grow in the time of social isolation and distancing.
And, when I started writing this post, I thought we could add to those activities by honoring the heroes in our favorite stories who are, indeed, isolationists - hermits, recluses and even reluctant warriors, and who, like true hermits, offer guidance in a time of need.
The only problem is, they are virtually always portrayed as men, not women.
Huh?
Male Hermits as Heroes
For example, we have:
Obi Wan Kanobi
We meet him in the first of the Star Wars films as a hermit living on the distant planet of Tatooine. From an unassuming introduction, he grows into a character rich with wisdom and fluent in the way of the Force. A true hero, and guide. I love him.
Rick Deckard
In Philip K. Dick's
Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep (AKA Blade Runner) Rick Deckard is a dark hero, a bounty hunter responsible for retiring (aka killing) rogue androids that escape from off-world colonies. A loner for sure whose reluctance to connect makes the mysterious ending ever so much richer. Perhaps an anti-hero, but a hero none the less.
And Then There are the Women...
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| Dickens' vengeful Miss Havishham |
In my search for female characters who represent the positive and creative aspects of the Hermit, I'm still looking.
Help me out here, please!
So far, fictional female characters who spend time alone, unlike men, do not become Jedi Masters or alluring dark heroes. Generally, they become cruel, go mad and die alone, without making a single mark.
Take, for example, Miss Havisham in Dickens'
Great Expectations. She's driven into isolation and mental instability from romantic heartbreak. Not our favorite role model or bringer of light.
And then there's Emily Grierson in William Faulkner's
A Rose for Emily. She's described as “a small, fat woman” who lives in a town full of people who see her as cold, distant and living in her past. No midi-chlorian running through her veins...
We have powerful works like Sylvia Plath's
The Bell Jar. The main character is isolated but... she also has deep psychological issues rooting from early childhood and struggles with depression, feeling of alienation, inadequacy... We can empathize and relate, but is she our guiding light in the true sense of the Hermit?
No, none of them are.
If you know of an awesome female hermit in fiction who is not portrayed as a soul-sucking maniac, I would love to hear about her. I'll put her up alongside Obi Wan Kenobi and all the other awesome male loners ASAP!
Hope to be inundated. :)
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Kim Falconer's New YA Fantasy Series is out August 4, 2020 - Crown of Bones. (Writing under A.K. Wilder)
Contact at kimfalconer.com
