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Showing posts with label reduce daily stress. Show all posts

Thursday, October 16, 2025

The Art of Adaptation - Take Five

 

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Welcome to the Sup!

Today's instalment of my 2025 series, The Art of Adaptation, is focused on taking five. 

In other words, taking a break. 

In this context, we know that most authors have adapted to an intense and competitive work expectation, but is this good for us? Our creativity?

Do we have to work so hard to meet deadlines and other expectations? 

No, we do not.

Before you shrug this off for any multitude of reasons, consider some interesting facts from our historians and evolutionary biologists.

Rest Versus Work from a Historical Perspective


Before AI, the internet and the home computer, before jazz, the industrial revolution and even the pyramids, our ancestors knew how to take a break. They did it all the time, and they benefited greatly from it.

Evolutionary biologists speculate that the average cavewoman/man worked less than 15 hours a week and spent the rest of the time in leisure, eating, digesting, dancing, socialising, playing music and hanging out with the kids.

Even up to medieval times, before the Industrial Revolution, rest and sleep were revered, but cycled between two major nighttime blocks. We'd wake in the middle of the night for an hour or two and enjoy intimacy, prayer, food and reflection, then go back to sleep for another block of rest. During the day, food breaks and naps were considered normal, even for basic labourers. 

But, somewhere along the way, our modernisation with a 9 to 5 mentality has produced work-machines, with some cultures placing the work ethic high above everything else, including health, joy, community and wellbeing. Now, the 40 - 90-hour work week and powerhouse, 8- 16-hour work days, depending on the profession, is the norm.

Unfortunately, writers belong to the professions that entail very long hours and often for so little financial reward that a second or third job becomes necessary. It can be gruelling.

I'm not going to elaborate on the average hourly income for a mid-list author, but you can think of the minimum wage in a third-world country and halve it, if you want a prompt.

Back to the notion of rest versus work. A pro-production/anti-rejuvenation lifestyle can harm our health, well-being and even capacity for creative inspiration. 

Here's why.

The harms of Overworking

Neglecting relaxation can lead to physical damage, constant anxiety, and a decline in overall well-being and joy. 

This is because chronic stress leads to inflammation, which leads to disease, ending in conditions like cardiovascular diseases, cancer, autoimmune diseases, and respiratory illnesses such as COPD and asthma... you get the idea. Stress is bad for our health!

How can we avoid it?

Simple. 

Take Five.

The Benefits of Taking Breaks


There's no disputing that relaxation reduces stress, improves focus, and replenishes energy. 

Consistent downtime allows the body to recover from stress hormones, which lowers blood pressure and heart rate and gives the mind a chance to reset. This opens the way to better concentration, creativity, memory, and positive thinking. 

My friend Jeannette Maw puts it like this:

Our culture tends to promote hard work as a way of proving we’re worthy of the reward. It’s easy to get caught up in that routine, since we’re often managed for productivity (or even manage ourselves for it) – constantly looking for ways to be more efficient and get more done.

That’s why it’s counter-cultural – or even radically revolutionary to put it all on pause to do a lot of nothing... (but) there’s something magical about doing nothing that invites our favorite dreams to come true! Read more here...

Great Ways to Take Five

Jeannette asks: What does a good break look like?

First, close your eyes: Tune in.

And then, be intentional. Choose leisure activities you love or are keen to try: Games, yoga, Tai Chi, meditation, grounding, napping...

Do what calls to you. 


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It could be nothing, or maybe it’s something fun to do. It could be solo, or maybe it’s with others.

The idea is to incorporate short breaks throughout the day and longer periods of rest to allow your brain to switch between different states of activity and rest... to allow you to recover from STRESS.

Conclusions

When in doubt, or wound tight in stress with deadlines closing in, don't do more. Do less.

Take a break.

Have a nap. Goofoff. Explore the infinite possibilities of leisure. 

You and your creative life will thank you for it.

Meanwhile, I'm taking five, and loving every minute of it.

Are you?

xxKim

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Other Posts in the Art of Adaptation 2025

January - The Art of Adaptation - Films in 2025

February - The Art of Adaptation - Authors' Response to External Pressures

March - The Art of Adaptation - The Healing Magic of KDrama

April - The Art of Adaptation -  Reader Persuasion

May - The Art of Adaptation - Fantasy Monsters Part 1

June - The Art of Adaptation - Fantasy Monsters Part 2 

July - The Art of Adaptation - Alternate History

August - The Art of Adaptation - AI: A New Chapter for Writers

September - The Art of Adaptation - Crafting Mood with Language

October - The Art of Adaptation - Take Five

November - The Art of Adaptation - On Time

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About Kim Falconer


Kim Falconer, also writing as AK Wilder, has released Crown of Bones, a YA Epic Fantasy with Curse of Shadows as book 2 in the series. 

Currently, she is ready with the third book, planned to be out in 2025. TBA

Kim can be found on AKWilder.com, TwitterFacebookInstagram and KimFalconer.com

Throw the bones on the AKWilder.com site.. See you there!

Read Blood and Water, a PNR alt history that will leave you questioning every natural disaster ever endured.

“There is no doubt fiction makes a better job of the truth.”

Saturday, November 16, 2013

Take a Holiday from Stress

With Thanksgiving and Christmas Holiday just around the corner, it's a good time to ask "Is there  too much stress in my life?"

To find out, check in with your emotional guidance! Here's how:

Feel good = stress free.

Feel bad = stressful.

The idea is to bring awareness to the situation so we can let go of what's not supporting us. Indicators of stress include:

  • Fatigue, yawning, dozing, spacing out, depression  Aches and pains and symptoms in the body 
  • Nervous tension, anxiety or apprehension 
  • Insomnia and sleep disturbances
  • Lack of enthusiasm for life  

Reducing Daily Stress Where is the relief? Where is the liberation? Four quick ways to let go of stress: • Burn off the adrenaline! Find a feel good exercise!

  • Remove the source of stress by reassessing plans and restructuring goals. 
  • Eliminate ‘tolerations’. Let them go, or find a new way to think about them. 
  • Learn to say no, delegate, and entrust others.
  • Nurture mind/body/spirit. Exercise and meditate! 

Stress Reduction Through the Zodiac

The signs of the zodiac can alert us to authentic needs and modes of stress reduction. We each have all twelve signs in our charts, although some will be emphasized more than others. Looking at the natal signs of the Sun, Moon, Ascendant and Ascendant ruler(s) offers a good starting point.

 AriesAries need to express through assertion and action. Stress accumulates when physical restrictions are imposed or there is a lack of independence, authority and self-direction. Effective stress relief includes defining goals, regular exercise, and focusing on the areas of life where you CAN be in charge.

TaurusTaurus need to express sensually. Stress can accumulate when there is physical isolation, deprivation of intimacy or lack of comfort and security in the environment. Stress relief may come from healthy physical contact, bodywork, regular meals, intimacy, and good financial planning.

GeminiGemini need to express through communication and multitasking. Stress builds up when there is no one to talk to, too little to do, or no way to disseminate ideas. Stress relief comes with the right amount of activity levels, new projects, cultivating friends, study, and varied types of playful exercise.

 CancerCancer need to express through emotional bonds. Stress can arise from discordant surroundings, moving house, loss of nourishing family ties, minimal creative and emotional outlets and financial insecurity. Stress reduction includes building self-nourishment and love, creativity, domestic security and emotional ties.

 LeoLeo need acknowledgement, distinction, and an audience. They like drama! Stress can arise from lack of recognition, humiliation or a feeling of insignificance. Anything that adds sparkle and specialty will help reduce stress, as will exercise, playful joint activities, romance and creative or
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dramatic self-expression.

 VirgoVirgo need to categorize, refine, plan and examine. Stress can arise from emotional or environmental chaos, inactivity and lack of order or meaningful tasks. They need to feel their work reflects a valid contribution, great or small. Control over diet, exercise, communication and the day to day environment is critical.

 LibraLibra need to harmonize, share, beautify and relate socially. Stress can arise from imbalance, injustice, harsh environments, social isolation and lack of image control. A stressed Libra needs to talk things out, sharing feelings and experiences with a caring other. One of the people pleasers, they stress about having to say NO.

 ScorpioScorpio need to interact intensely, get behind the scenes and live on the edge. Stress can occur when life is too sedate or lacking in emotional intimacy. Some risk or danger can be nourishing for Scorpio, as is fortifying personal relationships and allowing time and space for passionate expression. Dramas and upheaval are allies = healthy transformation.

 SagittariusSagittarius need to explore, find meaning, direct others and adventure. Stress can arise when life is too confining and predictable. There is a strong need for social contact and a longing to lead the group. Physical exercise in natural outdoor settings is a must, as is spontaneity.

 CapricornCapricorn need to assert their own authority, build structure and gain achievement and results. Stress augments when this sign lacks control, security, plans or power. Self-sufficiency, planning, and wise time management reduces stress, as does exercise that builds, strengthens and
refreshes.

 AquariusAquarius need stimulation, challenge, knowledge and freedom. Stress can arise when life is banal, restrictive, subdued, or routine. Linking with like-minded others, making sudden decisions and daring to be different can reduce stress. Exercise is vital as mental focus causes this sign to forget the needs of the body.

 piscesPisces need to imagine, commune, restore and escape. Stress builds when they ignore physical needs, lack emotional bonds, feel pressure to perform or have no outlets to create and/or escape. Pisces thrives on an active and imaginative inner world where they can retreat to regain balance. Must have a sanctuary.

Have a wonderful family gathering this holiday season, and remember everyone, stress free bliss is best. xK

Kim Falconer is a Supernatural Underground author writing paranormal romance, urban fantasy, YA and epic science fantasy novels.

You can find out more about Kim at kimfalconer.com or on the 11th House Blog. She posts here at the Supernatural Underground on the 16th of every month. Her latest release is"Blood and Water" in Supernatural Underground: Vampires Gone Wild.